find it strange that you can apply feng shui to love and sex in your
life, but feng shui principles can be applied to anything and everything
in our lives in an easy and simple way.
love is concerned, what we wish from life is to be loved and respected
for the person that we are, and to be safe and empowered in that love.
is concerned safety is paramount and we need to place a great deal of
trust in the person we are involved with. To bring both these things
into our lives can be the most wonderful thing!
feng shui to help you find love is a matter of not confusing yourself
with things that are superficial and of no account.
When we meet someone new and we become
interested in them, then a strange thing happens!
As we inter-react with each other our auras combine and we probe
each other on a much deeper level to see if we are compatible and if
is chance of us being able to find love with each other.
feng shui in this situation, means firstly being honest about how you
perceive the other person to be, and not necessarily taking too much
notice of the colour of their eyes... colour of their hair and how
handsome/beautiful they are, but allowing yourself to see past the
physical so that you are aware of the true person underneath. If you are
meant to be together in a loving way, then you will very quickly
realised this and you will feel the spiritual and emotional bond between
calls for honesty, and the ability
not to persuade ourselves
that something is so just because we wish it to be so! Finding love
using feng shui means allowing your natural wisdom to council you and
being honest with yourself.
when we meet someone for the first time, we feel as if we have already
met them before, and almost as if we have known them for a long time.
This is often because we have connected in more than one
lifetime, but unless you allow your natural wisdom and honesty to guide
you in this, you may not realise the importance of it.
have found love, then treat it as you would any other precious and
valuable thing in your life, with respect, with honesty and with
gratitude! These are the
principles of feng shui and will support your love if you will allow
feng shui suggests that we un-clutter our lives, and create open and at
airy supportive spaces, using feng shui principles in a loving
relationship is very much the same.
Don't cloud the relationship by insisting on
talking about irrelevant things from the past, either of your pasts.
Recognize that the relationship starts at the point that you met
and be willing to accept it as that.
We all have things that we wish had not happened in our lives,
but having to rationalise them to another, or explain them to someone
you love is not always beneficial.
Recognize that new love demands new experiences, and the past
should be left firmly where it belongs, in the past!
to impose your will on the one that you love. Recognize that love should
flow freely and naturally between the two of you and each should show
respect and honour to the other at all times.
avoid jealousy, no one can give their attention to another one hundred
percent of the time! Allow the ‘winds of heaven’ to blow between you
from time to time, then your times together will be far more precious
that sex too is a precious gift,
treat it also with respect for its own sake.
It should be invigorating and empowering... if it is not then it
is best left alone! It is never a means to an end, but is a beautiful
experience in itself.
true love in today's world can be difficult, and like many things we are
more likely to find it when we are not looking for it!
Making it an issue will effectively close off
the likelihood of it coming to you, so don't look for love.... allow
love to look for you! And
when you find it treat it with respect, honour and delight!